no matter what life brings i can't help but be thankful and always smile and laugh. maybe it's my upbringing, i thank my parents for that! and THEIR parents! they have always taught me to always be "thankful". my dad said it again to me the last time i went home for mother's day, he said his dad always told him "i don't go to church to ask for anything. i go there to say THANK YOU".

..and you definitely make me smile and laugh. good times! :)

99.9999% of the messages i get here and every where are amazing complimetary and for that i am forever blessed and thankful. but i do get the occassional 'slap in the face'. but that's alright. i'm glad for those too! :) i actually started blogging alot more than before because of a girl who told me off telling me i had no appreciation for my fans (and in a very graphic way if you know what i mean). i'm not sure where she is right now.. but i do thank her for opening up my eyes.

i'm not saying this is a negative email but it does raise a question. and it may just be a question others may have too. so here it is: (from the beginning..)


Remember when posted this last week????
----------------- Bulletin Message -----------------
From: Tey
Date: Jun 5, 2008 12:22 PM
"..and the day came when the risk (it took) to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom" -another quote from Anais Nin
i hope you choose to bloosom today :)

Here's the response I got :)
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: (deleted)
Date: Jun 5, 2008 3:08 PM
Tey, a thought just crossed my mind. I wa watching the softball world series for women. I chose the team that had the best looking girls. How many male fans do u think u would have if you were not a little fox? Do u think K.D. Lange has any male fans that aren't gay. I doubt it. Cheers--and keep rockin in the free world for as long as we have it.

Here's my response:
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its always nice to be thought of.. love always..
Tey
teymusic. com

I got this today:
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Nice of u to respond but I thought I had an interesting take--and all I got was a canned response. Let's try in another direction--how much of your appeal is sexual and how much is artistic. Now be real and actually consider this--the answer doesn't matter as long asyou honestly think about this. Ciao-wiedersehen-bonjour-whatever.



i answered that email i got today.. and believe you me i have lots to say about IT and K.D. Lang, but i would rather hear your voice on this matter:) love always..

and here's "Sex on the Beach" for you again! thank you for always listening!